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In the modern landscape of dating, where digital ghosting and superficial swiping have become the norm, a recommendation from a trusted friend feels like a rare insurance policy. When my best friend Mia suggested setting me up with Eric, a close friend of her boyfriend Chris, I felt a cautious optimism. Blind dates had always felt like high-stakes theater to me, but Mia’s endorsement was glowing: she described Eric as “old-school,” respectful, and incredibly steady. Our initial correspondence seemed to validate her assessment. Eric was a man of complete sentences and thoughtful inquiries. He didn’t rely on the low-effort banter of dating apps; instead, he asked about my favorite travel memories and my professional goals. After a week of pleasant digital preamble, he suggested dinner at a prestigious Italian trattoria downtown—a choice that felt intentional and sophisticated.
The evening of the date arrived, and Eric’s performance was nothing short of cinematic. He was standing by the hostess stand five minutes early, clutching a vibrant bouquet of long-stemmed roses. He was dressed in a crisp, charcoal suit that suggested he took the occasion seriously. Throughout the meal, he was a paragon of traditional gallantry. He pulled out my chair with a practiced grace, complimented the color of my dress without being overbearing, and even presented me with a small, engraved silver keychain. He explained that he had seen it in a boutique earlier that day and it had reminded him of a story I’d told him about my love for vintage maps. It was a gesture that felt deeply attentive.
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