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“Understand what, Vivian? Why would you have to hide anything from me?”
The dam finally broke. Vivian stood up, her eyes bright with tears and a frustration that had clearly been festering for years. “Because you don’t want me to be happy! You just want me to be a machine. Every time I find something I love, you tell me it’s a distraction. You tell me I need to focus on my GPA, on my APs, on my ‘potential.’ I’m not a person to you anymore; I’m just a schedule!”
“It’s a dance studio, Kelly,” he explained softly. “Vivian found a late-night contemporary class last summer. She’s gifted, but she was terrified that if you knew, you’d make her quit to study more. I shouldn’t have lied, but she needed a safe space to breathe, and I wanted to give her that.”
In that moment, the “ice cream runs” were revealed for what they truly were: a reckless rescue of a young girl’s spirit. I had been so focused on ensuring her success that I had forgotten to ensure her joy. I had become the very source of instability I had promised to protect her from—the instability of feeling unseen in her own home.
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