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I didn’t cry that night. Instead, I began to build. For the next three months, I led a double life. I told Harry I was working late on spreadsheets and deadlines, but in reality, I was three blocks away at a driving school. My instructor, Miguel, became the catalyst for my reclaimed autonomy. He was patient and encouraging, never making me feel small when I stalled the engine or struggled with a parallel park. As I mastered highway merging and three-point turns, I realized that the power I had handed to Harry—the power of mobility and independence—was something I could simply take back. I didn’t need his permission to move forward.
The day I passed my driving test on the first try, I felt a sense of pride that had been absent from my marriage for years. I tucked my license away and waited for the perfect moment to reveal my progress. That moment arrived on my birthday. Harry had planned a dinner at a restaurant of his mother’s choosing, and as we walked to the car, the familiar choreography began: Harry toward the driver’s side, Stephanie toward the front passenger door. I paused and told them I had a surprise for them in the garage—a white box they needed to retrieve before we left.
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