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Understanding
the Situation: Why Your Son Wants a New Car
Your son’s desire for a new car could stem from various causes, such as a desire for independence, peer pressure, or a sense of entitlement. At 21, he may feel that a car is essential for his social life or career prospects. It’s important to consider whether he truly needs the car for practical reasons or if it’s more about staying in touch with his friends.
Furthermore, societal expectations and media portrayals often emphasize that a car is a status symbol. Understanding these influences can help you identify the root cause of this need and find a solution that satisfies both of you.
2. Evaluate his relationship with his father.
Your son’s threat to move in with his father could point to underlying issues in your relationship as co-parents or in the perceived dynamic between you. It’s important to assess whether his father genuinely supports this decision or if your son is using it as leverage.
Consider having an open conversation with his father to understand his perspective and ensure you both agree on what’s best for your son. A united front can prevent manipulation and encourage your son to make decisions based on his best interests rather than emotional blackmail.
3. Evaluate the financial implications of buying a new car.
Buying a new car is a significant financial commitment that includes the purchase price, insurance, maintenance, and fuel. Depending on the make and model, the price of a new car can range from $20,000 to over $50,000. It’s important to consider whether this expense is manageable given your current financial situation.
Discuss the financial implications with your son, including the long-term costs and responsibilities that come with car ownership. This conversation can help him understand the seriousness of his desire and encourage him to consider more realistic options.
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